Change we can believe in?

We all love change as much as we hate it.
Whether we are going to like a new turn of events in our fate, depends on how poised and primed we are for it.
Lets not go into a serious contemplation now. Let me rather see its lighter implications.

We might embrace a change when we want to but we continue to yearn for the old because a change is relative. Soon the old becomes the new new and the new becomes the old new.
So changes are best liked when we can get rid of them whenever we want to. We are most comfortable with them that way, never when its forced on us.

Its like I wouldn't mind sitting in the office till late hours until I am asked. Because its not "work" until you are asked to do it ;)
The inner self will be egoistically inclined to resist the change put up against it. So, its best not to be a desperate bastard to try to give up smoking without a reason or without a conscious mind. One will give up only to start again.

An uninvited change from the outside world on the other hand does not go well with our independence but not many people complain.
As its observed not all of us prefer independence, because with independence comes responsibility and the need to stand like a rock.